Someone asked my husband what his hobby was and I answered, “His phone”
Tonight, I realized, I don’t know the last time we did something together. We do go out to eat but he is almost always on his phone and I use my kindle app to read. We do talk sometimes at night but out and doing something? The museum in Cleveland before the pandemic? I’m not sure.
Part of the problem is his disability but more, it’s his phone. I have given up fighting it. My life, interests and who I am cannot compare to the people in his phone.
I think it is that way for a lot of people now. I had always thought people would see it someday but I truelly think, with all else going on in the world, we have lost this battle.