Had the oddest moment driving home today. I fight with my husband for every single thing that needs to be done. Sometimes he helps but, if I ask, the answer is almost always NO!
I’m done. I’ll do what I can and just leave the rest. No more begging, pleading, reasoning and yelling. I’m sure he will be happier and I will be selff reliant. If it’s something I can’t do, it just won’t get done.
There is an odd parallel here. As A child my needs were rarely met. I am repeating that pattern I think but I don’t need to. I’m done and okay with it.